Dictionary Definition
handshake n : grasping and shaking a person's
hand (as to acknowledge an introduction or to agree on a contract)
[syn: shake, handshaking, handclasp]
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Pronunciation
Noun
Related terms
- to shake hands
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Extensive Definition
A handshake is a short ritual in which two people grasp
each other's right or left hands, often accompanied by a brief
up and down movement of the grasped hands. While its origins remain
obscure archaeological ruins and ancient texts show that
handshaking was regularly practiced as far back as the 2nd century
BC. Some researchers have suggested the handshake may have been
introduced in the Western World by Sir
Walter Raleigh in service with the British Court during the
late 16th
century. The handshake is thought by some to have originated as
a gesture of peace by demonstrating that the hand holds no
weapon.
The handshake is initiated when the two hands
touch, immediately. It is commonly done upon meeting, greeting,
parting, offering
congratulations,
or completing an agreement. Its purpose is to
convey trust, balance, and equality.
In Anglophone
countries, shaking hands is considered the standard greeting in
business situations. In casual non-business situations, men are
more likely to shake hands than women. It is considered to be in
poor taste to show dominance with too strong a handshake due to
people perceiving it as a sign of weakness.
Atlantic City, New Jersey Mayor Joseph
Lazarow was recognized by the
Guinness Book of World Records for a July 1977 publicity stunt,
in which the mayor shook more than 11,000 hands in a single day,
breaking the record previously held by
President Theodore
Roosevelt, who had set the record with 8,513 handshakes at a
White
House reception on January 1,
1907.
Modern Customs
There are various customs surrounding handshakes, both generically and specific to certain cultures:- Generally it is considered inappropriate, if not outright insulting to the initiator side, to reject a handshake without good reason (such as an injured right hand). Islamic exception: When extending a hand to shake that of a person of the opposite sex, you should not be alarmed if the handshake is not taken. This is not a rude gesture. Rather, the Muslim is abiding by the Islamic requirement that discourages physical contact between opposite sexes.
- In some cultures people shake both hands, but in most cultures people shake the right hand.
- Boy and Girl Scouts specifically use a left handshake, as a convention instituted by Lord Baden-Powell.
- Practitioners of fencing shake with the non-sword hand after a bout. This is due to the sword hand being employed holding the weapon.
- Secret societies and fraternities and sororities often use secret handshakes to identify themselves as initiated brothers or sisters to outside members.
- In American culture, there is a "Soul Brother Handshake," also called a "Power" or "Unity" shake, dating to the 1960s, begun among African-American men, and still widely practiced between men of various races and particularly among teenage boys as a gesture of close friendship. This is usually a three move procedure, beginning with a traditional, palm-to-palm clasp, followed in quick succession by a clasping at the hilt of the thumbs, and finally, by a hooked clasp of only the fingers, in the manner of railroad couplers. Variations include the above, followed by an exchange of facing palm slaps, as in "Gimme Five," or fist bumping, tops-to-bottoms, "the face slap", or knuckles-to-knuckles.
- Among Arabic-speaking people, handshakes accompanied with the salutation As-Salamu Alaykum (peace be upon you) are an old tradition.
- In some religions such as Orthodox Judaism (according to some opinions) and Islam, the prohibition against physical contact between members of the opposite sex precludes shaking hands.
- Generally it is considered an insult to gesture as to accept a handshake but then move the hand away to initiate another activity.
See also
- Greeting habits
- Holding hands
- Handshake Man
- Golden handshake
- Handshaking lemma
- Dap greeting (a form of handshake among African Americans).
References
handshake in Arabic: مصافحة
handshake in Catalan: Encaixada
handshake in German: Händeschütteln
handshake in Spanish: Apretón de manos
handshake in Esperanto: Manpremo
handshake in Persian: دست دادن
handshake in French: Poignée de main
handshake in Korean: 악수
handshake in Hebrew: לחיצת יד
handshake in Dutch: Hand geven
handshake in Japanese: 握手
handshake in Norwegian: Håndtrykk
handshake in Portuguese: Aperto de mão
handshake in Russian: Рукопожатие
handshake in Simple English: Handshake
handshake in Finnish: Kättely
handshake in Swedish: Handskakning
handshake in Chinese: 握手
Synonyms, Antonyms and Related Words
accost,
act up to, address,
agree to anything, bob,
bow, brown-nose, court, curry favor, curtsy, dance attendance on,
embrace, fall all over,
fall over, fawn upon, greeting, hail, hand-clasp, hello, how-do-you-do, hug, kiss, make court to, make up to,
nod, pay court to, play up
to, polish the apple, run after, salutation, salute, shine up to, smile, smile of recognition, suck
up to, wave